I tend to agree.

However, I think that here often, they do like to have a "celebration of life" and actually, I like that idea better.

When I go I want there to be a big party. They have to play Kiss (Rock and Roll All Night, Detroit rock City) , Trooper (Raise a little Hell, Boys in the Bright White Sports car, Here for a Good time) and AC/DC (Dynamite, Dirty Deeds done Dirt Cheap). No one should cry.